In an August episode of her podcast, financial expert Suze Orman shared a deeply personal and thought-provoking email from a listener named Peter, a 72-year-old retiree. Peter’s situation highlights the importance of proactive financial planning and clear family communication, especially as we age.
Peter had been married for 40 years when his wife died suddenly of pneumonia at age 69. Like many couples, they had divided their financial responsibilities, with his wife managing their investments while Peter focused on his career. This arrangement worked well until her unexpected death left Peter alone to manage their finances. Then Peter discovered a shocking twist: the $1.5 million inheritance his wife had received from her father would go not to him, but to their two sons, both in their 40s.
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Peter contacted Suze Orman for advice on how to handle this complex and emotional situation. He explained that he and his wife had always planned to use her inheritance to secure their retirement. But now that she was gone, the inheritance legally passed to their sons, leaving Peter in a precarious financial position. His only sources of income were Social Security and the interest on his investments, and he worried about having enough money to live on.
Orman shared Peter’s story with her listeners, beginning with a powerful question she had asked her own loved ones earlier that morning: “What would you give your life for?” The question set the tone for the seriousness of Peter’s dilemma, as it became clear that his financial future now depended on the decisions of his sons.
Orman advised Peter to take a direct approach with his sons. She suggested asking them to pay off his $400,000 mortgage, noting, “If they inherited $1.5 million, they could each just give him $200,000, and Peter would own the house outright.” Alternatively, she suggested his sons provide a monthly allowance, “maybe two or three thousand dollars a month,” to help Peter maintain his lifestyle without financial pressure. If these options aren’t feasible, Suze advised, “Cut your expenses and live within your means,” by considering downsizing.
Unfortunately, Peter’s follow-up email revealed that things hadn’t gone as planned. Even though his sons each inherited $750,000, they were reluctant to part with the money. One son in particular suggested that Peter invest more aggressively, despite Peter’s preference for conservative investments like T-bills and high-yield savings accounts. “It’s going to be stressful for all three of us,” Peter wrote, “but it’s most stressful for me.”
Suze used Peter’s story to emphasize the importance of having difficult financial conversations with family members before they need to. “Have you talked to them about money, who it goes to, how it’s passed on?” she asked her listeners.
Peter’s situation is a reminder that assumptions about family support can lead to financial insecurity. As Suze put it, “You have to put yourself in a position where you can take care of yourself financially… without asking anyone, including your children, for money.” By taking these steps, Peter—and anyone else in a similar situation—can protect their financial future and maintain their independence.
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